Tuesday, October 09, 2012

Loving the Two

* sorry for the abundance of post, today was my day off from school and work and i had A LOT to blog about. LOL

“When you share history with somebody then you tend to fall in love with somebody else, it’s kind of difficult,” he says in the video. “Is there such thing as loving two people? I don’t know. I don’t know if that’s possible but for me, I feel like that.”

After Chris Brown split with ex-girlfriend Karreuche and produced this video of him being intoxicated after a night of clubbing, it bought up a huge debate with me and some friends on whether it was possible to love two people at the same time.

Me being the absolute sucker for love believe this is 100% true, you can be in love with two people at the same time. When you have been with someone for a long time, you guys share history, seen each other’s flaws, and are genuinely in love, it’s hard to ever stop loving them. So when an unfortunate event happen where you all part ways, that love is still entwined with you all. So after you both believe you can “move on” and find someone new, it’s still in your heart that this person is for you, you can’t stop thinking about that person, and you really just miss that person in your presence.

If it’s real love, you just don’t fall out of love with a person for one (or a couple) bad thing. He could break your heart, leave you in the rain crying, embarrass you, but you still love that person.
 While you can love two people at one time, the decision on whether you are grown or not takes place. are you going to be grown enough to love someone else with all your heart or are you going to play games and continue to be with someone else while another person has your heart. 

 I personally think you can love someone but you guys aren't meant to be together and that is definitely one of the hardest things to go through. Picture someone you love and would do anything for but also picture all the faults they had. They loved you but weren't ready to settle down. They loved you but they were a bum. They loved you but they loved the hoes more. It happens all the time. But stuff like that gets in the way preventing you to have the perfect relationship. So it’s nothing else to do but try your best to move on, you can’t make anyone change and why continue to deal with bullshit like that just because you love them.

Chris loved Rihanna and it was unfortunate for what happened to occur, but it did. They both tried to move on but deep down inside Chris continued to love Rihanna, making it impossible for him to ever love Karreuche the same way he loved Rihanna. Yes he probably loved Karreuche but to the same degree as Rihanna, I don’t think so. And it always sucks being that “rebound” person, because you’re giving your all and he’s trying to give his all as well but he can’t because his relationship with Rihanna didn't end on them both wanting to end it.

Do you guys agree that it’s possible to love two people at the same time, or no? I want to hear your views!

Love ya!